
In the quiet suburbs of Jefferson County, Missouri, a morning in late May 2024 would shatter the calm of everyday life and haunt the community for over a year. It was on that unassuming morning that 38-year-old Ashley Parmaly, a mother of two, walked into the Fesus Police Station and, with a chilling calmness, told the front desk clerk: she had killed her two young children.
Scarlet Parmaly Dardy, 9, and her 2-year-old brother, Isaac Bound, would never come home again. What unfolded next was a nightmare that left even seasoned law enforcement officers deeply unsettled.
Jefferson County Sheriff Dave Marshack described the scene in an earlier interview: “She parked her vehicle, walked in calmly, disheveled but seemingly normal. She approached the clerk and shared that she had killed her children. Initially, there was disbelief, but multiple officers quickly responded to assess the situation.”
Investigators discovered Scarlet in the trunk of Parmaly’s Mazda, dead from a gunshot wound. Isaac was later found submerged in a decorative fountain at Timberlake Creek Resort, beyond the reach of rescue. The horror of this case immediately captured national attention, not only for its brutality but for the perplexing psychological dimension behind it.
Forensic psychiatrist Dr. Daniel Boober compares the case to Andrea Yates, the Texas mother who drowned her children in 2001. He explains, “This is a case of filicide, often linked to extreme mental illness. There can be delusions, hallucinations, and a warped sense of protection. Some parents believe they are saving their children from a perceived worse fate.”

Signs of Parmaly’s mental struggle had appeared long before the murders. Hours before the killings, she changed her Facebook profile to a solid black screen—a silent, digital cry for help. She had also previously posted about isolation, depression, and self-doubt, questioning her ability to care for her children.
Legally, the case took an extraordinary turn. Parmaly faced two counts of first-degree murder and one count of armed criminal action, potentially carrying life sentences or the death penalty. Yet in February 2025, her attorney announced a plea of not guilty by reason of mental disease or defect—essentially, an insanity plea.
Independent forensic examiners, followed by the Missouri Department of Mental Health, confirmed that at the time of the killings, Parmaly could not comprehend the wrongfulness of her actions. On August 13th, 2025, after more than a year of investigation and legal maneuvering, she was committed to the Department of Mental Health with no set release date.
Her attorney emphasized the tragic nature of the case: “Ashley’s sudden mental health crisis led her to believe she was protecting her children. She takes medication now that provides clarity, but she must live with the reality of what happened. This is not her fault, according to multiple medical professionals, yet the weight of responsibility remains a lifelong burden.”

The case underscores a haunting reality: mental illness can erupt suddenly, leaving devastation in its wake, and cries for help—like Parmaly’s black Facebook profile—can easily go unnoticed. Experts urge communities to recognize the warning signs, increase access to mental health resources, and pay attention to subtle cues that may indicate a crisis is brewing.
This tragic story is a stark reminder of the complex intersection between mental illness, parental love, and unimaginable loss—a case that continues to challenge both the legal system and our understanding of human psychology.